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Posted By: Scooby
Subject: Hi
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 4:41pm
My name is Ashley. I've been with Edward Jones for about 10 years, and am level 7 production starting new, no assets. I was wondering if anyone here has experience with social media.
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Posted By: socalfa
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 6:22pm
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My experience with social media is that most of it isn't allowed, and what is has to be funneled through compliance so it comes out pretty bland.
My guess would be that Jones is even more restrictive.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 6:51pm
I'm up to about 300 followers on my company FB page, mostly clients and their immediate family and friends. It costs something like $15 a month for the Socialware so compliance can monitor.
The legacy trainee I have said they're being taught to use social media for prospecting. I doorknocked my way until referrals and networking started paying off. But the trainee and a few others have said more and more business for them is coming from FB.
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Posted By: SometimesNowhere
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 7:10pm
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Real question time...how hot are you?
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Posted By: overUnder
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 7:17pm
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FB is tough outside of seminar events to really convert any business but does help establish your online brand. I'd concentrate more on Linkedin.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 7:19pm
overUnder wrote:
FB is tough outside of seminar events to really convert any business but does help establish your online brand. I'd concentrate more on Linkedin. |
I have a LinkedIn account, and haven't logged in since I can't even remember when. My contacts there are all probably recruiters and salesmen. I wonder whether the time spent to build all this up is worth it. I've had clients and prospects ask whether I'm on Facebook, but have never had one ask about LInkedIn.
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Posted By: overUnder
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 7:27pm
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LinkedIn would be more for proactive recruiting. Adding connections who are searched by niches you served and personally reaching out to them. I have had most success with this method. Far more than that of Facebook as you can not be proactive and solicit their following you since it's a business page.
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 8:03pm
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? | she could be a he with the name Ashley.
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Posted By: overUnder
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 8:05pm
PEACH_cm wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? | she could be a he with the name Ashley. |
I believe SN is well aware of such.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/11/2017 at 8:12pm
This board is really coming off as a bunch of old men who haven't talked to a woman except their wife in 12 yrs
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Posted By: Macduff
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 8:12am
bc2051 wrote:
This board is really coming off as a bunch of old men who haven't talked to a woman except their wife in 12 yrs  |
Ding Ding Ding
We have a winner.
------------- “I was born for the storm, and a calm does not suit me.”
― Andrew Jackson
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 8:37am
I should feel fortunate my question was answered at all.
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 9:10am
Scooby wrote:
I should feel fortunate my question was answered at all.
| talk to windy. He built a billion dollar practice with his old Edward Jones Facebook page
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Posted By: missionshooter
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 10:57am
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business?
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 11:56am
missionshooter wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business? |
It wasn't a help at all the first few years. People wouldn't take me seriously. I started at 25, and looked maybe 18. Doorknocking was difficult at best. I had to reach out to veteran women advisors for best practices on all the crap women deal with that men don't.
Now it's easier, and I wouldn't be surprised if much of my new business is as least partly influenced by my appearance.
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Posted By: RipRock
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 12:49pm
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So if Tom Cruise is a level 10 Scientologist, what is a level 7 EdwardJonesologist? Similar/different?
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Posted By: SometimesNowhere
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 2:57pm
PEACH_cm wrote:
Scooby wrote:
I should feel fortunate my question was answered at all.
| talk to windy. He built a billion dollar practice with his old Edward Jones Facebook page |
He also always beats the market by at least 6%. He also was the lead singer of a very popular band. Did I mention he deadlifts 600lbs, and has a 450 bench?
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 6:47pm
Oh, so he's one of those people. I didn't see any members on the search with the name Windy.
On another note, for those of you creeps doing a search, Ashley is my middle name. The Joneslink directory and my business cards have my first name and the A. initial. I wasn't born yesterday. Been stalked, not going through that again.
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Posted By: Iamlegend
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 8:50pm
Scooby wrote:
missionshooter wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business? |
It wasn't a help at all the first few years. People wouldn't take me seriously. I started at 25, and looked maybe 18. Doorknocking was difficult at best. I had to reach out to veteran women advisors for best practices on all the crap women deal with that men don't.
Now it's easier, and I wouldn't be surprised if much of my new business is as least partly influenced by my appearance.
| Can you elaborate?
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Posted By: Ironman
Date Posted: Jun/12/2017 at 9:46pm
Scooby wrote:
missionshooter wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business? |
the crap women deal with that men don't.
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Such as?
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Posted By: missionshooter
Date Posted: Jun/13/2017 at 2:37pm
Scooby wrote:
missionshooter wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business? |
It wasn't a help at all the first few years. People wouldn't take me seriously. I started at 25, and looked maybe 18. Doorknocking was difficult at best. I had to reach out to veteran women advisors for best practices on all the crap women deal with that men don't.
Now it's easier, and I wouldn't be surprised if much of my new business is as least partly influenced by my appearance.
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At least this chick realizes how much her appearance helps her. When we had a hot assistant, all of our older male clients always asked about her and were eager to sign anything she put in front of them. I also noticed their eyes gazing at her ass as she walked them back to conference room.
You have to accept it and use it to your advantage Ashley.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/13/2017 at 3:20pm
I market to professional women in my area - I'm in a wealthier suburb of a major metro. You can trip over $500,000 rollovers all day here. Especially early on, I found women easier to work with and develop a business relationship. Men were very eager to talk, but slow to do business if they did anything at all. So I don't proactively go after men, unless I've been introduced by a referral or networking group or my CPA/estate lawyer, that kind of thing. The problem I ran into was the wife would freak out on me when I'd call or F2F the house when prospecting them. So I've basically given up chasing men as clients for that reason.
I really do try to not leverage sex or appearance when prospecting. I think it's selling out and it'll eventually come back to destroy me.
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Posted By: Omar
Date Posted: Jun/13/2017 at 4:33pm
Ironman wrote:
Scooby wrote:
missionshooter wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business? |
the crap women deal with that men don't.
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Such as? |
And here we go...............
------------- The game is out there. Either play or get played.
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Posted By: Ironman
Date Posted: Jun/13/2017 at 9:48pm
Omar wrote:
Ironman wrote:
Scooby wrote:
missionshooter wrote:
SometimesNowhere wrote:
Real question time...how hot are you? |
Please Answer SN's question...
How much does your hotness help you get new business? |
the crap women deal with that men don't.
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Such as? |
And here we go............... |
Answer avoided so far.............
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/14/2017 at 7:15am
Scooby wrote:
Oh, so he's one of those people. I didn't see any members on the search with the name Windy.
On another note, for those of you creeps doing a search, Ashley is my middle name. The Joneslink directory and my business cards have my first name and the A. initial. I wasn't born yesterday. Been stalked, not going through that again.
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Well done, Scooby. If I were you I would try to go by Scooby. This is a good way to respond. Clearly you have thick skin, which has helped you in your business.
Windy's new name is "Calm Like a Bomb". So if you want to look at his business building techniques, that is how you would search.
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Posted By: anonymous
Date Posted: Jun/14/2017 at 8:27am
Moraen wrote:
Scooby wrote:
Oh, so he's one of those people. I didn't see any members on the search with the name Windy.
On another note, for those of you creeps doing a search, Ashley is my middle name. The Joneslink directory and my business cards have my first name and the A. initial. I wasn't born yesterday. Been stalked, not going through that again.
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Well done, Scooby. If I were you I would try to go by Scooby. This is a good way to respond. Clearly you have thick skin, which has helped you in your business.
Windy's new name is "Calm Like a Bomb". So if you want to look at his business building techniques, that is how you would search.
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This should probably be the end of the thread. Start a new thread with questions about how CLAB has achieved the level of success that you aspire to.
------------- "Just do shit. It doesnt matter what as long as it gets you and your name in front of people" - Sportsfreak
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Posted By: zack.miller
Date Posted: Jun/14/2017 at 9:23am
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Deffinitley just Linked in
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Posted By: luvindy
Date Posted: Jun/14/2017 at 10:21am
zack.miller wrote:
Deffinitley just Linked in |
Well said one post guy.
------------- 8/31/12,Sportsfreak: "If Barak wins this election, or appears to be clearly winning, we are all fucked. Market will tank big time." Dow 13,090 S&P 1406 5/23/13 UC:Dow 20k before 20% crrectn Dow 15,
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Posted By: Ironman
Date Posted: Jun/15/2017 at 9:39pm
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Crickets.
Reminds me of a fictitious NY Times Headline: World Ends Tomorrow - Women and Minorities Hit Hardest
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Posted By: Arielle
Date Posted: Jun/17/2017 at 6:26pm
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Linkedin is a great place to find potential clients. You can get notified about if clients have new jobs and rollover their 401ks.
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Posted By: Iamlegend
Date Posted: Jun/17/2017 at 9:06pm
Arielle wrote:
Linkedin is a great place to find potential clients. You can get notified about if clients have new jobs and rollover their 401ks. | How many clients have you gotten from Linkedin?
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Posted By: luvindy
Date Posted: Jun/18/2017 at 12:39am
Iamlegend wrote:
Arielle wrote:
Linkedin is a great place to find potential clients. You can get notified about if clients have new jobs and rollover their 401ks. | How many clients have you gotten from Linkedin? |
Well said.
------------- 8/31/12,Sportsfreak: "If Barak wins this election, or appears to be clearly winning, we are all fucked. Market will tank big time." Dow 13,090 S&P 1406 5/23/13 UC:Dow 20k before 20% crrectn Dow 15,
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/19/2017 at 8:20am
I'm raising my niece, and she says I look like the host from Make Way for Noddy. My BOA said she can see the resemblance. I don't.
After reviewing a few of the threads on here I could find, I'll shelf the idea about social media for now.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/19/2017 at 8:36am
Scooby wrote:
I'm raising my niece, and she says I look like the host from Make Way for Noddy. My BOA said she can see the resemblance. I don't.
After reviewing a few of the threads on here I could find, I'll shelf the idea about social media for now.
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I wouldn't table it at all. Social Media is powerful stuff. I wouldn't take any advice from anyone here though. They all still use ads like it was a newspaper.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/19/2017 at 9:04am
I receive routine calls and have picked up great clients from ads - church bulletins, place mats at local restaurants, country club guides, real estate welcome wagon booklets. I still run an ad in the church bulletins and country club guides.
I'm on social media, but I have had issues with being stalked on my personal Facebook page, which is undiscoverable now. My LinkedIn contacts are mostly sales professionals and whoever sends out random requests. I haven't controlled the contacts quality and rebuilding it from scratch would be a real hassle. I sense value in seeking rollovers from job changers, but I pick those up from referrals anyway.
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Posted By: brome90
Date Posted: Jun/19/2017 at 11:25am
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We would all love to hear the story of you being stalked on your facebook page.. Was it by a client, an ex, someone else?
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 5:31pm
brome90 wrote:
We would all love to hear the story of you being stalked on your facebook page.. Was it by a client, an ex, someone else? |
Who are you? How would you feel if every time you turned your back on your drink at the bar, you felt you needed to dump it and order a new one because you were afraid someone might drug it? How would you feel if every time you walked to your car at night, you watched the shadows in the bushes because you've been stalked or attacked? Have you ever been so afraid for your life that the idea of leaving the house was paralyzing?
You are what's wrong with the world. Don't ever address me on here ever again.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 7:52pm
Scooby wrote:
brome90 wrote:
We would all love to hear the story of you being stalked on your facebook page.. Was it by a client, an ex, someone else? |
Who are you? How would you feel if every time you turned your back on your drink at the bar, you felt you needed to dump it and order a new one because you were afraid someone might drug it? How would you feel if every time you walked to your car at night, you watched the shadows in the bushes because you've been stalked or attacked? Have you ever been so afraid for your life that the idea of leaving the house was paralyzing?
You are what's wrong with the world. Don't ever address me on here ever again.
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And I was just starting to think you might stick around
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Posted By: Sportsfreak
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 7:54pm
This is working out well.
------------- If you eat an entire cake without cutting it, then technically, you only had one piece
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 9:03pm
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I hope she does stick around, otherwise she lets him win and dominate her... and not in a way that she might "enjoy".
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 9:16pm
Calm Like A Bomb wrote:
Scooby wrote:
I'm raising my niece, and she says I look like the host from Make Way for Noddy. My BOA said she can see the resemblance. I don't.
After reviewing a few of the threads on here I could find, I'll shelf the idea about social media for now.
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I wouldn't table it at all. Social Media is powerful stuff. I wouldn't take any advice from anyone here though. They all still use ads like it was a newspaper.
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Back to shit that interests me. T-12 & AUM? Go.
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Posted By: SometimesNowhere
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 9:44pm
helado wrote:
Calm Like A Bomb wrote:
Scooby wrote:
I'm raising my niece, and she says I look like the host from Make Way for Noddy. My BOA said she can see the resemblance. I don't.
After reviewing a few of the threads on here I could find, I'll shelf the idea about social media for now.
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I wouldn't table it at all. Social Media is powerful stuff. I wouldn't take any advice from anyone here though. They all still use ads like it was a newspaper.
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Back to shit that interests me. T-12 & AUM? Go. |
I love that ice cream has the focus of the hadron collider.
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/22/2017 at 10:25pm
Scooby wrote:
brome90 wrote:
We would all love to hear the story of you being stalked on your facebook page.. Was it by a client, an ex, someone else? |
Who are you? How would you feel if every time you turned your back on your drink at the bar, you felt you needed to dump it and order a new one because you were afraid someone might drug it? How would you feel if every time you walked to your car at night, you watched the shadows in the bushes because you've been stalked or attacked? Have you ever been so afraid for your life that the idea of leaving the house was paralyzing?
You are what's wrong with the world. Don't ever address me on here ever again.
| not the first time (or last time) he has been talked to like a dog. score one for the home team. Keep it up
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Posted By: RIArules
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 4:12pm
Scooby wrote:
brome90 wrote:
We would all love to hear the story of you being stalked on your facebook page.. Was it by a client, an ex, someone else? |
Who are you? How would you feel if every time you turned your back on your drink at the bar, you felt you needed to dump it and order a new one because you were afraid someone might drug it? How would you feel if every time you walked to your car at night, you watched the shadows in the bushes because you've been stalked or attacked? Have you ever been so afraid for your life that the idea of leaving the house was paralyzing?
You are what's wrong with the world. Don't ever address me on here ever again.
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Just get your concealed carry already
------------- “We are all Antifa” - Hacksaw 9/12/2025
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 5:37pm
I should not need to conceal carry. I should not need to watch my back around men. I should not need to worry about going out the goddamn door.
Thank you for answering like a man.
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Posted By: RIArules
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 5:55pm
You obviously have big tits or a nice ass, probably both. You should be thanking your lucky stars for these gifts. All the chicks with no tits and flat asses are singing cry me a river....
------------- “We are all Antifa” - Hacksaw 9/12/2025
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Posted By: MrGreen
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 5:58pm
RIArules wrote:
Scooby wrote:
brome90 wrote:
We would all love to hear the story of you being stalked on your facebook page.. Was it by a client, an ex, someone else? |
Who are you? How would you feel if every time you turned your back on your drink at the bar, you felt you needed to dump it and order a new one because you were afraid someone might drug it? How would you feel if every time you walked to your car at night, you watched the shadows in the bushes because you've been stalked or attacked? Have you ever been so afraid for your life that the idea of leaving the house was paralyzing?
You are what's wrong with the world. Don't ever address me on here ever again.
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Just get your concealed carry already |
This. Especially if you look like who you claim to look like (must not be a lot of toddler parents on this board, the Make Way for Noddy host is easy on the eyes). I know, I know. Give me the liberal argument "well I shouldn't have to." Well, you're damn right you shouldn't have to, but that's not going to stop shadow bush man. A ruger .380 with with "self defense rounds" will though (just ask for them at academy, they aren't expensive). You can carry that thing in your pocket. It only takes a weekend to get your CWL. No more shadow bush man problems.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 6:49pm
Obviously? This?
Obviously, nobody would say "gosh, it must be hard to feel that way all
the time. Sorry that happened to you. Sorry for talking like an
insensitive pig."
No. I get comments about my ass and tits and carrying a gun.
Obviously, this was a mistake.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 6:50pm
Whoever has the ability to do so, please cancel my account and delete my record here.
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Posted By: Iamlegend
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 7:09pm
Scooby wrote:
Obviously? This?
Obviously, nobody would say "gosh, it must be hard to feel that way all the time. Sorry that happened to you. Sorry for talking like an insensitive pig."
No. I get comments about my ass and tits and carrying a gun.
Obviously, this was a mistake.
| Sorry that you feel that way. My wife tells me stories of men following her around the grocery store sometimes also or men coming up to her and asking what her situation is or just saying hey you are hot, etc. completely inappropriate. I for one say stick around.
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Posted By: luvindy
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 10:47pm
Iamlegend wrote:
Scooby wrote:
Obviously? This?
Obviously, nobody would say "gosh, it must be hard to feel that way all the time. Sorry that happened to you. Sorry for talking like an insensitive pig."
No. I get comments about my ass and tits and carrying a gun.
Obviously, this was a mistake.
| Sorry that you feel that way. My wife tells me stories of men following her around the grocery store sometimes also or men coming up to her and asking what her situation is or just saying hey you are hot, etc. completely inappropriate. I for one say stick around. |
I only did it because I thought your wife wanted the attention.
------------- 8/31/12,Sportsfreak: "If Barak wins this election, or appears to be clearly winning, we are all fucked. Market will tank big time." Dow 13,090 S&P 1406 5/23/13 UC:Dow 20k before 20% crrectn Dow 15,
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Posted By: Iamlegend
Date Posted: Jun/23/2017 at 11:07pm
Posted By: MrGreen
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 9:57am
Scooby wrote:
Obviously? This?
Obviously, nobody would say "gosh, it must be hard to feel that way all
the time. Sorry that happened to you. Sorry for talking like an
insensitive pig."
No. I get comments about my ass and tits and carrying a gun.
Obviously, this was a mistake.
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You have my sympathy on the stalker thing. I really can't imagine having the feeling of being afraid all the time. That's no joke. ...but I don't see how saying a <insert non-sexist word for woman here> who has a problem with some creepy dude to arm herself is insensitive. So on taking the approach of "walking a mile in the other person's shoes" that would be what I would do. I know I wouldn't want to be worried, all the time, about the guy hiding in the bushes. God didn't make everyone equal, Mr. Colt did.
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Posted By: missionshooter
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 10:22am
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Stick around Scoob. You just have to let some things go.
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 12:33pm
I understand. One in nine women have been raped. That means one in nine men are rapists. I read what people here post and its sick. Sorry to bother
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 12:36pm
BuzzLY wrote:
I understand. One in nine women have been raped. That means one in nine men are rapists. I read what people here post and its sick. Sorry to bother |
Wow. Do you always assume that crime is done on a 1:1 basis? - Ever think that rapists are repeat offenders on other people? - Ever think that women could be a multiple victim of rape from different men?
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 1:27pm
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<insert Bill Cosby joke here>
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 1:36pm
D.H.K. wrote:
BuzzLY wrote:
I understand. One in nine women have been raped. That means one in nine men are rapists. I read what people here post and its sick. Sorry to bother |
Wow. Do you always assume that crime is done on a 1:1 basis? - Ever think that rapists are repeat offenders on other people? - Ever think that women could be a multiple victim of rape from different men? |
Yes no and no You might be right and might not. Women don't care about that. All I see is that if I have nine men by me one is probably a rapist The way you guys talk on here. A rapist pig as President. It's safer to be a rich white rapist in college than a black family man. Scooby hints she was stalked and raped and you guys say get over it and get a gun and ask about her breasts and rear end and whether shes hot Whats that about? You guys dont respect women then get mad when scooby says something
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 1:50pm
BuzzLY wrote:
D.H.K. wrote:
BuzzLY wrote:
I understand. One in nine women have been raped. That means one in nine men are rapists. I read what people here post and its sick. Sorry to bother |
Wow. Do you always assume that crime is done on a 1:1 basis? - Ever think that rapists are repeat offenders on other people? - Ever think that women could be a multiple victim of rape from different men? |
Yes no and no You might be right and might not. Women don't care about that. All I see is that if I have nine men by me one is probably a rapist The way you guys talk on here. A rapist pig as President. It's safer to be a rich white rapist in college than a black family man. Scooby hints she was stalked and raped and you guys say get over it and get a gun and ask about her breasts and rear end and whether shes hot Whats that about? You guys dont respect women then get mad when scooby says something
| then you are clearly an idiot, do not know about crime statistics, and take online message boards way too seriously.
If one of my daughters told me they were being stalked I would tell them to come to the range with me and begin carrying a gun on a regular basis.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 1:54pm
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You're right because I was talking logically, rather than addressing feelings. I do know a woman who was raped multiple times by different men... and NO they were not "asking" for it. (Sorry, but she didn't even register on the scale of 1-10, let alone 'dress provocatively' or anything like that.)
But for some reason, she was raped twice by different men. Probably an easy target for the assault, which is exactly what it was.
This is a prank video... but ask yourself how YOU would react:
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Posted By: RIArules
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:12pm
BuzzLY wrote:
D.H.K. wrote:
BuzzLY wrote:
I understand. One in nine women have been raped. That means one in nine men are rapists. I read what people here post and its sick. Sorry to bother |
Wow. Do you always assume that crime is done on a 1:1 basis? - Ever think that rapists are repeat offenders on other people? - Ever think that women could be a multiple victim of rape from different men? |
Yes no and no You might be right and might not. Women don't care about that. All I see is that if I have nine men by me one is probably a rapist The way you guys talk on here. A rapist pig as President. It's safer to be a rich white rapist in college than a black family man. Scooby hints she was stalked and raped and you guys say get over it and get a gun and ask about her breasts and rear end and whether shes hot Whats that about? You guys dont respect women then get mad when scooby says something
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Now I get it. Do you have a vagina hat hanging next to the door in your efficiency in Soho? And I never asked about ass and titties, just speculated because, you know, all the rapey-stalky talk. If you buy the line that 1 in 9 men are rapists, you're a lost cause.
------------- “We are all Antifa” - Hacksaw 9/12/2025
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:13pm
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I will also agree that if you feel threatened, then one of the best things you can do to take charge of your fear... is to get a concealed carry permit and a gun, and learn how to use it.
This may be a bit facetious, but there's some truth in it:
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:28pm
My pastors daughter gave me the book thirteen reasons why. Shes the only person who knows what happened to me in my life. The girl in the book is Hanna and she is raped. But thats not why she killed herself. It was all the little things people said and did that were a joke or that didnt respect her. Hannahs school adviser said to forget it happened since she didn't want to name the boy. Forget it happened. Just forget it. Like you can forget having your soul ripped apart.
My friend let me cry for hours. Thats what I needed then not a gun or karate just someone to listen. I never said it then but I really want d to die. Even four years later I still feel that hurt like it would be better to die. A gun wont fix that or make me trust a guy enough to go out
That meme is not funny its sad
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:40pm
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I don't understand how you can function in this industry with this kind of fear and/or trust issues. I can only guess that you might only work with single or divorced women? (There's a big demand in that niche.) You only have a few posts, so I can't guess your business model or anything about what you do in the industry, but I can generally guarantee you that these fears and/or trust issues... will affect your performance in this business, until you find a way for you to control it, rather than let these fears control you.
Edit: I see now that you're just new to the industry. Well, this is an item that you won't learn from your firm if you're going to be in a prospecting role of any kind. If you can't find a way around this, I would suggest a support role, or another industry in general.
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:43pm
I work for my dad he's a cfp. He wants me to take over later on. Right now I answer phones and do mailings. I donT like it at all but he said I'll never worry about money. I'm in school for psychology and would rather be a counselor
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:45pm
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I can see that being more meaningful for you where you can empower (and heal) yourself and others through that kind of work.
While there is an element of psychology in working with people with their money, you have to LOVE being in this business. If you don't love what you do, you won't do nearly as well as someone who can really get into it.
You can 'help your dad with the phones', but you need to tell him how you really feel and go into something where you really see yourself being successful. The money won't come to (or stay with) someone who doesn't love what they do.
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:53pm
My dad is teaching me to control how people see me if I want to make it when he retired I always wear a mask I have to because I hate men so much. Not because all are bad but because you don't think how women see your words and how they feel what you say. Your not trying to be a rapist pig or sound like you condone it or anything but many things you guys say on here echo in our hearts and really hurt If you said that kind of stuff to me that was said to scoot even a year ago I'd lock myself in a bathroom and want to cut myself. That would hurt less than how I feel with those words. I think my dad is a sociopath because I can tell he fakes empathy with his customers I don't want to ever need to fake how I feel
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 2:57pm
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Let me emphatically say this: this business and industry is NOT for you. This business takes a thick skin for success as a planner.
Given how you feel about your dad, you just need to quit - YESTERDAY. Just don't show up and let what happens happens.
However, I doubt you'll do it... because he is a man, and you said he's a sociopath. And you're too full of fear to shake up the status quo.
The sooner you take charge of your own life, the sooner you can change your life. Right now, you are REACTING to everything - even this little paragraph of text. That's no way to live. You need to find YOUR WAY of being PROACTIVE in your life towards what YOU want.
Here's the first bit of truth I want you to learn: this forum, or anyone else, is NOT responsible for how you REACT to them. Your reaction is your responsibility. In fact, look at the word 'responsible'. You are able to control your response. That's an evolved way of looking at your emotional reactions to things. Don't change the world. Change YOUR world... and everything else will change for you.
I'd read the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey and learn some principles on how to master control over yourself and develop influence in others.
Here's a blog entry to get you started: http://www.stephencovey.com/blog/?p=50" rel="nofollow - http://www.stephencovey.com/blog/?p=50
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 3:11pm
I agree and I probably will quit. But he's giving me $13 an hour for the summer I don't tell people how I feel or blame them for it but it doesn't change how what they say makes me feel but your right I am responsible for how I respond. I tried talking here instead of getting angry like scooby did. Maybe some of you will understand
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 3:25pm
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Keep in mind none of us here were condoning rape and the word "rape" seems like a huge leap given the context. It's men being men and by that I mean they were talking about the elephant in the room- this business is different if you're a woman. That's reality. This is what happens when men can comment and be anonymous and this won't be popular with you two, but scooby is overreacting and you're both bringing baggage from before to a place where it has no place. Sorry if that makes me a sexist pig
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 3:30pm
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Jesus, I want to cut myself after reading this page.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 3:35pm
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Buzzly- I do sympathize with you but the quicker you realize the problem is with one guy and not EVERY guy, the quicker you'll be over this
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 3:36pm
Words have meaning and can change lives or end them even in here. Words start and end wars. Some of you got divorced cause of words Our bodies healed already. I volunteer at my college for a sex assault program. The words these girls here after the rape is worse than the rape and some kill themselves for it. One girl did because of what her dad said Words are expensive. You guys are in money business pretend every word you write on here costs you something. You write a check from your soul for every word you say or write. Will that check bounce when a girl cashes it in her soul? I don't think any of you are rapists at least I hope not. But what you say can hurt far worse than the act itself. Always remember that Sorry to bother I can see I don't belong here
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Posted By: PEACH_cm
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 4:22pm
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It's summer where I am at but snowing on AH! Waxing up the skis now. Fresh sledding on these monster snowflakes.
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 4:46pm
I love my dad and brother. But Id never tell them what happened
I want all of you to look at your wives and daughters. If nine of you do that odds are one of your wives or daughters have been raped. I want you to think and wonder whether they'd ever tell you out of fear you cant possibly ever understand
So im a snowflake. Winter is coming unlike any you can imagine and I promise those of you that are sexist pigs will freeze to death
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 4:57pm
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I'd tell my daughter to report what happened as close to the time that it happened. Get a police report and then you can prosecute a case so it might not happen to anybody else.
My daughter is 13 going on 17... and yeah, I exercise a bit of tough love on her.
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Posted By: RIArules
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 5:04pm
You're right, Game of Thrones is like 3 weeks away!
------------- “We are all Antifa” - Hacksaw 9/12/2025
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 5:26pm
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Bet you guys miss a good active vs passive debate about now, don't you? 😂
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Posted By: BuzzLY
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 5:49pm
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Theres no debate. You pay commissions or fees with passive so your always behind the index and that sucks
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Posted By: Iamlegend
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 5:56pm
BuzzLY wrote:
Theres no debate. You pay commissions or fees with passive so your always behind the index and that sucks | Oops! On another note since your dad is already in the business, you really should try this business. Those claiming you will definitely fail forget that most people just leave their account as is unless something terrible happens. How old is your dad?
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Posted By: Sportsfreak
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 6:41pm
helado wrote:
Bet you guys miss a good active vs passive debate about now, don't you? 😂 |
Best post ever.
Everything bout this thread rom buzzly's first post forward, is total bullshit
Buzzly is just trying to get the number one spot on the Sometimesnowhere go kill yourself list.
------------- If you eat an entire cake without cutting it, then technically, you only had one piece
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 7:56pm
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I was sorta thinking the same thing, but don't wanna push this chick off the ledge if she's truly this fragile. Profile does say male tho
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Posted By: B24
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 8:52pm
bc2051 wrote:
I was sorta thinking the same thing, but don't wanna push this chick off the ledge if she's truly this fragile. Profile does say male tho |
Yeah, not a chick.
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Posted By: Sportsfreak
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 10:32pm
Agree, I think she's a he.
------------- If you eat an entire cake without cutting it, then technically, you only had one piece
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/24/2017 at 11:12pm
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For me, this changes the rape story a bit
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/25/2017 at 10:37pm
Buzzly, I agree with the statement that you don't belong in this industry. Counseling is a better suited career path.
As for the rest of you, back off. Some of you mean well, but you are headed down a rabbit hole you don't want to explore.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/25/2017 at 10:47pm
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For all we know, it was DAD that did it. She did describe him as a 'sociopath'... which would further reinforce my recommendation of leaving and taking greater charge of her own life.
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Posted By: Scooby
Date Posted: Jun/25/2017 at 10:56pm
It's frightening to think she may be right when she suggested the rape statistics. I often think the same, though I hope it's not true.
She privately emailed me asking whether she should return. I told her not to and to just stay away.
Don't go navigating a mine field. You are asking for trouble.
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/25/2017 at 11:14pm
Scooby wrote:
It's frightening to think she may be right when she suggested the rape statistics. I often think the same, though I hope it's not true.
She privately emailed me asking whether she should return. I told her not to and to just stay away.
Don't go navigating a mine field. You are asking for trouble.
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Good advice
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Posted By: luvindy
Date Posted: Jun/26/2017 at 9:50am
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A very special episode of Advisorheads.
------------- 8/31/12,Sportsfreak: "If Barak wins this election, or appears to be clearly winning, we are all fucked. Market will tank big time." Dow 13,090 S&P 1406 5/23/13 UC:Dow 20k before 20% crrectn Dow 15,
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Posted By: Spaceman Spiff
Date Posted: Jun/26/2017 at 10:25am
Sportsfreak wrote:
Agree, I think she's a he. |
Anyone else singing Dude Looks Like a Lady in their head right now?
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: Jun/26/2017 at 10:27am
I have a friend who is a former Navy SEAL who has made it his "retirement job" to stop campus sexual assault.
On campuses, it's actually 1 in 5 women experience rape, and 1 in 16 men. Men are estimated to be underreported by quite a bit.
Outside of that, the stats are about 11.2%, which is close to the 1 in 9 (for women).
When this analysis was done in the military, men were found to experience approximately the same level of sexual assault as women.
That said, all of these depend upon the definition of sexual assault. In some cases, sexual assault can mean catcalling, touching someone's shoulder from behind (surprising them). Physical sexual assault itself has wide-ranging definitions.
The research methods vary wildly.
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Posted By: brome90
Date Posted: Jun/27/2017 at 9:52am
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You come on to a forum, get a feel for it and have to see this isn't a warm and cuddly place.. And you throw something out about being stalked, and you're upset because I asked you about it? What the hell did you expect? Suck it up, this isn't a place where you'll get sympathy. Or a place where a bunch of white knights will come to your rescue.
EDIT: Ok so maybe I feel bad about saying what I said above. Sorry if I hurt your feelings or brought up bad memories. Just be careful what you divulge on a place that doesn't seem to care for feelings. (I hate always trying to do to right sometimes.)
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Posted By: missionshooter
Date Posted: Aug/15/2017 at 2:53pm
I miss Scooby
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Posted By: Hacksaw
Date Posted: Aug/15/2017 at 4:28pm
missionshooter wrote:
I miss Scooby  |
On of the most fucked up things I've ever witnessed.
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Posted By: nest
Date Posted: Aug/15/2017 at 5:28pm
Holy balls. I can't decide if I regret reading this or if it's the joke of the day. It all depends on what the definition of is is. Rape Culture. Carrying protection doesn't help. I'm a giant of a man in above average shape with significant martial arts training. I also own multiple guns including ARs. Still, I have been raped nearly a dozen times by multiple women. Many of my friends have also been raped by women. Some of us have been raped by the same woman. It's an epidemic. True story. But What I'm most ashamed of is that I enjoyed it.
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