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She's 26 and had a hard life so I don't think I have the heart to leave her even if I wanted to. Unless it was like something bad bad. But she's an angel. Sent you a PM btw. 
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Didn't mean to reply twice lol

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Spiff is right. EJ would be a no.  Now and forever with no degree. They won’t come out and say a degree is req’d, but it’s obvious and they get plenty of applicants 
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So then does it make more sense to take this Ameriprise offer then? They’re willing to hire me at 45k a year, learn it from inside out; and set me up for success in 5 years. I don’t see any other way of doing getting into this industry besides A. Taking this or B. Getting a degree which I’m 98% leaning towards NOT doing. 

The list of RIAS on that website have 280+ pages of shit to look through and I don’t really know what to look for or do w that info anyway 
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Originally posted by luvindy luvindy wrote:

Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

To Luv and everyone else- my gf does not do threesomes- I've asked several times. So Idk what would happen with the front desk lady but I have an open door policy.



Is she also around 29 years old? If you aren't engaged yet, I'd keep my mind open on this situation. Younger chicks that are cool are open to a lot more these days. She may not be a keeper. 


OMG Luv.  My interpretation is that HE may not be a keeper (for her).
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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

So then does it make more sense to take this Ameriprise offer then? They’re willing to hire me at 45k a year, learn it from inside out; and set me up for success in 5 years. I don’t see any other way of doing getting into this industry besides A. Taking this or B. Getting a degree which I’m 98% leaning towards NOT doing. 

The list of RIAS on that website have 280+ pages of shit to look through and I don’t really know what to look for or do w that info anyway 
Might be easier to just google firms near you.

I think the members are reluctant about Ameriprise because we've had an exhausting parade of people being strung along.

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This may help breh.

I was right out of college and called some of the top Indy advisors in my area. Got interviews within a week with 3 of 10.

Had offers from all 3.

Did not fuck the secretary, because she was a born again Christian and her husband was actually an ok dude. She was a 40 yr old 7/10 though. I thought about it , no doubt.
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good luck Dr. Pearls

the numbers will speak louder than words. The results that is. I hope you have the fortitude to grind the first 5 years and can prospect
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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

So then does it make more sense to take this Ameriprise offer then? They’re willing to hire me at 45k a year, learn it from inside out; and set me up for success in 5 years. I don’t see any other way of doing getting into this industry besides A. Taking this or B. Getting a degree which I’m 98% leaning towards NOT doing. 

The list of RIAS on that website have 280+ pages of shit to look through and I don’t really know what to look for or do w that info anyway 

Great first post.  I'm going to make this VERY easy for you.

1.  The job at Ameriprise is to be a glorified assistant.  These deals work out very rarely, especially when it's a family business.  You'll be on the outside looking in. 

2.  There is no part of that job, beyond sitting in on meetings, that is of any value to you being successful as an advisor.

3.  Stop trading options unless it's just for fun.

4.  If you think this job even remotely resembles "trading," think again.  

Now for what you should do...

5.  Tell Ameriprise you are going to start studying from home because you have the time, and your current income is higher.  Have them sponsor you for the Series 7.  Work with the owner about the terms of your deal once you have your licenses.  

6.  Save some money up, once you are licensed, you can then take the AMP deal if it's legit and in writing.  

If it's not, you're now licensed and can go wherever you want.

There is no reason for you to take a huge pay cut just to do paperwork.  Starting right now essentially guarantees failure.  Cold prospecting is a huge FAIL during COVID and we are 6 months away from any type of normalcy.  Use that time to get licensed, work a deal, save money, learn what you're doing, come up with a plan.

Hit the ground running this summer.

You may even find you can keep the current job and part-time your way into this career.  That's what I did.

For what it's worth, I was a relatively slow starter.  I was not naturally good at sales, in fact, I was horrible.  I did two full years while running another business.  This enabled me to fee-base and trail EVERYTHING (read threads about renewal income, it's similar to renewals in the P&C world).

My 3rd year (first year full time) I made about $30K.
My 5th year (three years full time) I made about $80K.
My 10th year (eight years full time) I made just over $500K.  

Keep your current income.  Study from home.  Get licensed.  Fee/trail everything.


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This sounds like good advice. I want to clarify a couple things. So tell Ameriprise I want to start working with them once I’m licensed and just be a full on FA for them from the get go? Also sorry for asking stupid questions but not sure what you mean by fee/trail everything. 

What I’m worried about is let’s say I do get licensed and have them sponsor me, I’m afraid I won’t know which produce to pitch in which scenario, what products to push, how to push them, etc. and that’s something I would learn by being as assistant there and sitting in on the meetings. 

She did also say I could move up there fairly quickly and I won’t be making 45k a year for long. By the time I learn a few things and get SIE license it’ll already by summer and covid will
Hopefully be gone by then. The way she worded it sounded great and since they’re friends of the family I pretty much believe they would set me up for success.

Still on the fence. One thing I do know is I want to make 500k a year in 10 years also. Would literally be a dream come true. Show me how Cry


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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

This sounds like good advice. I want to clarify a couple things. So tell Ameriprise I want to start working with them once I’m licensed and just be a full on FA for them from the get go? Also sorry for asking stupid questions but not sure what you mean by fee/trail everything. 

What I’m worried about is let’s say I do get licensed and have them sponsor me, I’m afraid I won’t know which produce to pitch in which scenario, what products to push, how to push them, etc. and that’s something I would learn by being as assistant there and sitting in on the meetings. 

She did also say I could move up there fairly quickly and I won’t be making 45k a year for long. By the time I learn a few things and get SIE license it’ll already by summer and covid will
Hopefully be gone by then. The way she worded it sounded great and since they’re friends of the family I pretty much believe they would set me up for success.

Still on the fence. One thing I do know is I want to make 500k a year in 10 years also. Would literally be a dream come true. Show me how Cry

This is the same shit I would tell people I want to hire at 45k/yr. Without measurable benchmarks, it doesn't mean shit.
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Originally posted by Wet_Blanket Wet_Blanket wrote:

Originally posted by luvindy luvindy wrote:

Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

To Luv and everyone else- my gf does not do threesomes- I've asked several times. So Idk what would happen with the front desk lady but I have an open door policy.



Is she also around 29 years old? If you aren't engaged yet, I'd keep my mind open on this situation. Younger chicks that are cool are open to a lot more these days. She may not be a keeper. 


OMG Luv.  My interpretation is that HE may not be a keeper (for her).

You're such a woman. Take this shit to the Good Housekeeping board!

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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

With all due respect, I don't think finishing college is the right move at all. Like why? If it's not required to get these licenses, then for what reason? What will I gain except a piece of paper? I didn't even finish my associates and I hate my job so much I'm even considering buying a semi truck and make 100k a year driving cross country lol. Thats not who I want to be in 10 years though. At 29 years old, I think that would be adding a shit ton my my already shitty plate that I don't think would be worth it to do.

Edward Jones was sounding like a great option, but it doesn't sound like Spaceman thinks there's a need for hiring right now. I'll look into it, and could maybe use some of your guys' personal recommendations if its enough to get me hired w/o a degree.

To Peaches startegy- I couldn't switch the clients from PC to any other firm or anything. I work in a super corporate America type place in an inbound call center basically. Would be nice though.

To Luv and everyone else- my gf does not do threesomes- I've asked several times. So Idk what would happen with the front desk lady but I have an open door policy.

I was leaning towards taking the Ameriprise offer but now I'm having more second thoughts than before. Although I wasn't expecting these answers. I thought you guys would say it's a great thing to join a winning, successful team I can learn everything from the inside out. Isn't that the best way to become successful in this field?

What exact questions should I ask the amerprise lady? Idk the right questions to ask, or how to word it to make sure there is a good path for me there and that I don't get screwed.

Also, who does have a good defined training program and how do I find an RIA I can work with that'd be better than Ameriprise?

Give me more advice on what career path to choose, how to get there specifically. Also How much you guys raking in every year? You guys making 500K plus? Please Sign me the F up.

I want to be the man in 10 years not some guy selling insurance in a call center to total dipshits

You need to finish your degree because you need to show that you can actually finish something. Also, if you ever want the CFP, you need a degree (you don't need the CFP to be successful). 

Ten years ago your chances of getting hired without a degree were ok, but they increasingly become more difficult.

Also, it looks better if you have one to clients.
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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

With all due respect, I don't think finishing college is the right move at all. Like why? If it's not required to get these licenses, then for what reason? What will I gain except a piece of paper? I didn't even finish my associates and I hate my job so much I'm even considering buying a semi truck and make 100k a year driving cross country lol. Thats not who I want to be in 10 years though. At 29 years old, I think that would be adding a shit ton my my already shitty plate that I don't think would be worth it to do.

Edward Jones was sounding like a great option, but it doesn't sound like Spaceman thinks there's a need for hiring right now. I'll look into it, and could maybe use some of your guys' personal recommendations if its enough to get me hired w/o a degree.

To Peaches startegy- I couldn't switch the clients from PC to any other firm or anything. I work in a super corporate America type place in an inbound call center basically. Would be nice though.

To Luv and everyone else- my gf does not do threesomes- I've asked several times. So Idk what would happen with the front desk lady but I have an open door policy.

I was leaning towards taking the Ameriprise offer but now I'm having more second thoughts than before. Although I wasn't expecting these answers. I thought you guys would say it's a great thing to join a winning, successful team I can learn everything from the inside out. Isn't that the best way to become successful in this field?

What exact questions should I ask the amerprise lady? Idk the right questions to ask, or how to word it to make sure there is a good path for me there and that I don't get screwed.

Also, who does have a good defined training program and how do I find an RIA I can work with that'd be better than Ameriprise?

Give me more advice on what career path to choose, how to get there specifically. Also How much you guys raking in every year? You guys making 500K plus? Please Sign me the F up.

I want to be the man in 10 years not some guy selling insurance in a call center to total dipshits
With all due respect, it doesn’t matter what you think about a college degree.  In some cases a company will require it as a part of their screening process.  Especially if you’re not a transfer broker.  

We really don’t do apprenticeships in this industry.  We should, but we don’t. If there isn’t a well defined program the folks at Ameriprise follow, you’re at the mercy of that office.  And what you’ll learn from them is what they do, which may or may not be the way you want to do things or even the right way.  It’s just their way.  I’ve got a very limited view of what the rest of the industry does to train their advisors, so I’ll let the others give you advice on other options.   

Search through these threads long enough and you’ll find most of us are veterans who are at $200K+ a year.  Some of us are double or triple that.  Some of the newer guys are probably making $50K a year because they’re just getting started.  

Oh, and making $500K a year doesn’t automatically make you “the man.”  I know guys who make double that who are complete tools.  Or rude, obnoxious jerks who think everything they say should be written down for the good of the industry as a whole.  I hope you get to that level, but don’t be that guy.  We have way too many of them in this industry.   
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What measureable benchmarks should I ask for them to agree to? Pass SIE, get a 1500$ bonus. Pass series 66 within 6 months another 1500$ bonus and salary of 50k at that point. Pass series 7 I get another 1500$ bonus and base pay of 70k a year now. Something like that? Then also what after that? You guys should Tell me EXACTLY what you’d ask for, during and after the licensing. I want to find a way to make this a good option to accept. I hate my job w a passion guys 
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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

What measureable benchmarks should I ask for them to agree to? Pass SIE, get a 1500$ bonus. Pass series 66 within 6 months another 1500$ bonus and salary of 50k at that point. Pass series 7 I get another 1500$ bonus and base pay of 70k a year now. Something like that? Then also what after that? You guys should Tell me EXACTLY what you’d ask for, during and after the licensing. I want to find a way to make this a good option to accept. I hate my job w a passion guys 

You should tell them you want $100K once you start thinking for yourself.

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Degree is just a piece of paper, but it is one people will judge you by - right or wrong.

Like Luv said - if it is not a written down and defined path, there is none. "The road to hell is paved with the best of intentions". Get something written that not only pays you, but moves your forward. Achieve (goal), you get _____. Whether that's $, position, title, etc. Otherwise you will likely stay an assistant for a long time. 

I started in this business with a family friend.  He was bringing me on to show me the business and I would take over for in in 5 years.  Two months later, another guy started there who I found out was told the same thing. He treated me fairly, but I was never taught ANYTHING from him.  He had his own book/business to run.  I was in a large firm training program (for better or worse).  

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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

With all due respect, I don't think finishing college is the right move at all. Like why? If it's not required to get these licenses, then for what reason? What will I gain except a piece of paper? I didn't even finish my associates and I hate my job so much I'm even considering buying a semi truck and make 100k a year driving cross country lol. Thats not who I want to be in 10 years though. At 29 years old, I think that would be adding a shit ton my my already shitty plate that I don't think would be worth it to do.

Edward Jones was sounding like a great option, but it doesn't sound like Spaceman thinks there's a need for hiring right now. I'll look into it, and could maybe use some of your guys' personal recommendations if its enough to get me hired w/o a degree.

To Peaches startegy- I couldn't switch the clients from PC to any other firm or anything. I work in a super corporate America type place in an inbound call center basically. Would be nice though.

To Luv and everyone else- my gf does not do threesomes- I've asked several times. So Idk what would happen with the front desk lady but I have an open door policy.

I was leaning towards taking the Ameriprise offer but now I'm having more second thoughts than before. Although I wasn't expecting these answers. I thought you guys would say it's a great thing to join a winning, successful team I can learn everything from the inside out. Isn't that the best way to become successful in this field?

What exact questions should I ask the amerprise lady? Idk the right questions to ask, or how to word it to make sure there is a good path for me there and that I don't get screwed.

Also, who does have a good defined training program and how do I find an RIA I can work with that'd be better than Ameriprise?

Give me more advice on what career path to choose, how to get there specifically. Also How much you guys raking in every year? You guys making 500K plus? Please Sign me the F up.

I want to be the man in 10 years not some guy selling insurance in a call center to total dipshits

Doubt you’ll get in at EJ without a degree or a book.  
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Originally posted by Dr Pearls Dr Pearls wrote:

What measureable benchmarks should I ask for them to agree to? Pass SIE, get a 1500$ bonus. Pass series 66 within 6 months another 1500$ bonus and salary of 50k at that point. Pass series 7 I get another 1500$ bonus and base pay of 70k a year now. Something like that? Then also what after that? You guys should Tell me EXACTLY what you’d ask for, during and after the licensing. I want to find a way to make this a good option to accept. I hate my job w a passion guys 

No.  The only thing you care about is CLIENTS.  There needs to be a clear, written path to you becoming an advisor, not an assistant.  Your payout, and the progression of your payout needs to be in writing.  If they are offering to give you lower end clients to cultivate, that needs to be in writing. 

Obviously you pitch this nicely and work up your deal as you're studying (and making $80K instead of $45k).

I would pitch doing it this way because you need to know your job is SALES and PROSPECTING for the next 3-5 years.  You can't really do much prospecting or meetings with COVID.  The cards are stacked WAY against you until next year when this is behind us.  So use that time to study (while getting paid $80K) and learning the answers to the questions you asked about products.  Also coming up with a business plan (can be informal) about how you will acquire clients once you start.

Truly, keep your current job, study, and be ready to roll next year.  You can "sit in on meetings" in June.  

Not that you need to worry about this now, but Ameriprise is in the bottom half of the industry in terms of which firm you probably want to be with.  They aren't awful.  You can make a career there.  But it wouldn't be in the top 10 places you'd want to.

The more I think about this, I'd pitch it to them with 100% honesty.  I'd just say, "I've given it some thought.  I definitely want to make a career of being a financial advisor with your firm.  I think the best move though is for me to get my studying done and tests taken on my dime.  I don't think I can live on $45,000 per year and I have plenty of time to study while working my current job.  The way I foresee my plan working out is being licensed within 6 months, which will coincide with mass distribution of the COVID vaccine, so I'll actually be able to prospect and hold meetings.  I can start learning your systems and do some shadowing in the meantime, and we can work out the details as we go.  I've already order the SIE book from Kaplan.  Let's rock!"

Or something like that.
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Oh and I disagree about the degree for your particular situation.  If you become an FA, don't bother.  Once you are licensed and have a book, the firms only care about production.  If you have $50 million in assets, any firm in this country will suck your dick to come over even if all you had was a G.E.D.

You can always go back to college for self fulfillment later in life, or if you want to get a CFP.  All it would do for you right now is put you 3 years behind schedule.  

Now if you decide this career isn't for you, then hell yes I'd start taking online classes yesterday.  
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